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Curating a Home That Tells Your Story through Art

Curating a Home That Tells Your Story through Art
One of the most powerful ways to tell your story through in your home is by curating a collection of art and books that speak to your who you are, where you've been, and where you're going. For me, that means surrounding myself with the works of emerging Black artists and coffee table books that capture the depth and richness of African American life and culture.

Curating art and books are about joy and connection. My collection brings me happiness because it tells a story of culture, history, and personal inspiration. I love talking about the meaning behind each piece in my collection. It's a constant reminder of why I'm inspired by them. Every work of art and book I own is intentional, deeply personal, and serves as a way to highlight where we’ve been, who we are, and where we’re going.

My love for collecting started when I visited a friend's home, where I first saw the power of creating a space filled with meaningful art. Their collection reflected history, culture, and personal expression. Growing up, I attended Black art demonstrations my aunts or my mom's friend house. That introduced me to the beauty of our culture through visual storytelling. It's incredibly crazy to see my own collection as a constant source of inspiration, reminding me of the richness of our culture and the importance of preserving it through art.


Art can evoke emotion, spark conversation, and preserve history. Supporting emerging Black artists allows me to own one-of-a-kind pieces while also contributing to the visibility and success of these creators. I source art directly from the artist, the art galleries that they are in residency with.  This ensures that artists receive full recognition for their work. Each piece I bring into my home is unique and speaks to resilience, challenges traditional narratives and celebrates Black beauty.

Books have always been a gateway to history, knowledge, and creativity. My coffee table book collection is not only decor, but it reflects all that above. Some of my must-have books include The New Black Vanguard by Antwaun Sargent, which celebrates Black creativity in photography and fashion; Carrie Mae Weems: Kitchen Table Series, a powerful exploration of race, gender, and identity; Black Futures by Kimberly Drew & Jenna Wortham, a vibrant collection of essays, art, and reflections on the future of Black life; Crown by Sandro Miller, a stunning visual tribute to Black beauty and identity; and The 1619 Project: A Visual Experience, a powerful reimagining of America’s founding through the lens of Black history. Each book in my collection is a conversation starter, an opportunity to learn, and a tribute to the voices that shape our culture.
By intentionally choosing pieces that resonate, I am building a space that not only inspires me daily but also tells the world who I am. How do you curate your space to reflect your identity? Drop a comment below, I’d love to hear about the art and books that mean the most to you.

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A New Season. A New Rhythm.

A New Season. A New Rhythm.

There’s always something about the first day of a new season that makes me stop and breathe a little deeper. Fall is here.

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Morning Rituals: How I’m Building the Life I Want, One Sunrise at a Time

Morning Rituals: How I’m Building the Life I Want, One Sunrise at a Time

In a time when everything feels loud, unpredictable, and a little unstable, I’ve learned that how I start my day can change everything. Morning rituals aren’t just about habits—they’re about survival, joy, and setting the tone for the life I want to lead.

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Objects with Soul: The Beginning

Objects with Soul: The Beginning

Growing up, most of us didn’t think much about the things in our homes. The vase on the shelf, the couch pillows we rested our heads on—they were just... there. But as an adult and a homeowner, I’ve come to understand just how deeply the things that surround us can shape how we feel, live, and connect.

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4 Home Decor Trends via The Philadelphia Flower Show

4 Home Decor Trends via The Philadelphia Flower Show

I recently attended the 2024 Philadelphia Flower Show with my mom for a mommy and daughter date. It's always something I look forward to because it signals that Spring is on the horizon. This flower show is the nation's largest and longest running horticultural event. This year's theme is "United in Flowers" and we were definitely united. I feel like flowers do that to you especially during the wintertime when things are cold, and depression is a high. When you walk into the convention center, you can't help but stop and smile, talk to other flower friends while smelling the freshness of the tulips, trees, roses, and the hundreds of other flowers that are on display. 

As, I walked through I couldn't help but notice four trends that would certainly brighten up your home as the Spring season steps in: 

Spring is coming so why not get a start on it now and start reaping the benefits of these trends. I couldn't help but be inspired by all of the colors, fragrances, and being around people celebrating the unveiling of a new season. My mom and I had a great time taking in all of the flowers and enjoyed each other's company. Cheers.

 

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BHM 2024: Meet Our Black Creators

BHM 2024: Meet Our Black Creators
We celebrate our black creators all year long however in honor of Black History Month, we will celebrate the black creators that help make The Collective by RaeFarrell great.  Continue reading

New Year. Fresh Starts.

New Year. Fresh Starts.

Happy New Year!!!! 2023 is behind us and it's a new opportunity to fresh ourselves mind, body, soul and your home. As many of us begin to take down holiday decorations and tuck them away, it is a great opportunity to give your home a refresh, transitioning from festive energy to a calmer and cozier feel. You can take stock of how you have used items in the past and see if they work with your current style or new lifestyle if you are setting resolutions.

Here are some items you can add to your home to make it warm and comfortable for the winter season. You can try layering cozy fabrics and textures, adding pops of color, switching up your home's accessories and decor. You can even restyle your mantles, tables and consoles. Plants are also always a great way to bring in some fresh oxygen and softness to corners of your home. 

Undoubtedly, when thinking about updating your home you think of the expense. But it doesn't have to be expensive. The easiest way to transform your space is to change up the layout, moving the sofa under the window. You can rearrange them to face each other if you have multiple sofas. Bring in furniture or decor from other rooms. You will be quite surprised how that red vase in one room can be the thing that brightens up the space. Even the smallest tweaks can make a major difference.

 

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Private In-Home Pop-Ups

Private In-Home Pop-Ups

Growing up, I would attend in-home demonstrations and shopping experiences with my mom. I remember being around all of these women all dressed up for an evening of food, drinks and shopping all in someone's home! There was art, and makeup and kitchenware's. A representative would come and talk to the ladies about their products and share wonderful stories about their experience owning the products or their desire to have those products in their home. There was an energy that was just contagious. So, I thought, why not bring back those private and intimate parties.

Last Summer, we hosted our first private in-home pop up which we have called OPEN HOUSE. It's just like our public pop-ups, but we come to your home and set up in your space. You invite your friends; we bring the products, and you shop. Our first Open House was great and full of laughs and energy as we shopped, discussed home decor, interior design, and even some fashion over cocktails and small bites. Are you in the Philadelphia area? Do you want a free host gift? Want to host an Open House? Shoot us an email at info@thecollectiverf.com for more information.
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